can we please all just take a moment to appreciate how AMAZING and TOTALLY EPIC and INCREDIBLE the latest ep of Game of Thrones was?
seriously. that shit made me so happy.
I write shit on the internet and then get in trouble for it.
Ask me anything
May 28, 2012
May 28, 2012
Anonymous asked: I don't always agree with what you write, but that post was incredibly well written and made a lot of sense.
Thank you.
May 28, 2012
Anonymous asked: would that i could be a brave sociologist
You see what I mean about other people being cruel?
May 28, 2012
Anonymous asked: because it hurts other people?
Look.
Most of the things I do and say have the ability to hurt other people whether I like it or not. Quite frankly, throughout most of my life, other people have gone to very little effort not to hurt me through their words and actions. It got to the stage where I was a little bit sick of letting that happen, and while responding in kind certainly isn’t the best way to deal with other people being hurtful, it’s the way that I chose. If you think that the other people I’m talking about, or you yourself, are somehow innocent in this situation, then you’re an idiot.
Believe it or not there is actually a lot of stuff I keep to myself. As I said before, I don’t deliberately hurt other people. Yeah, I made some mistakes and I feel bad about that, but I won’t compromise what I believe. You’re hiding behind the ‘anonymous’ function to say what you feel; I’m just braver than that.
May 28, 2012
in which Gabby makes ALL THE SENSE
takeustoyourleader replied to your post: in which i discuss my naivete, short-sightedness and genuine remorse.
Far out. Every time I read how shit some people are I am so happy that I left. Because when this type of shit isn’t happening to you, it’s happening to someone else. Who fucking cares what you write on the internet? It’s YOUR blog
takeustoyourleader replied to your post: in which i discuss my naivete, short-sightedness and genuine remorse.
and if they take everything so seriously then they need a good kick in the face. I mean i don’t even know who this is about but IT MAKES ME MAD. Because ily x
ILY too darling xx I hope that moving away really has gotten you away from all this rubbish - sometimes I think it’s just a symptom of the pond being way too small and everyone seeing too much of each other all the time and sleeping with the same group of people and, frankly, not having anywhere else to go when perhaps friendships are just over and need to be moved on from.
the thing I hate is that people always say that we should be more open and not to lock our feelings up etc, and then as soon as someone puts their thoughts out there apparently THAT’S wrong too
Yup. Can’t win. I got so much shit for the first 20 years of my life for being too bottled up, not being honest with friends and family, having difficulty talking about my feelings etc. And now I get all this hate about it. Oh well! I’ll be leaving in a couple of years and hopefully I can get a fresh start :)
May 28, 2012
Anonymous asked: you can keep things to yourself and not be fake, you know
AND SO THE HATE MAIL BEGINS!
yes, anon, i know. just as i’m sure you know that i always value your highly supportive input.
we live in an overshare culture, especially here on tumblr. the truth is that i don’t know why i feel the need to say all the shit that i say. perhaps it’s because i often find talking about things that aren’t human relations boring. i’m a sociologist; the way that people interact fascinates me. maybe it’s because i like to stir up shit and see what happens. maybe it’s because there is so much crap running through my head at any given moment that i can’t help but let some of it overflow.
perhaps it’s because one of my biggest pet peeves in life is people who refuse to talk about how they feel and what they’re thinking, even when that information is kind of important to the proper functioning of a friendship or relationship.
and, yeah, the alcohol doesn’t help.
the truth is that even if i didn’t say what i was thinking, in order to not be fake my actions would probably still communicate the way that i feel. why not just be direct about it?
May 28, 2012
"I believed that I wanted to be a poet, but deep down I just wanted to be a poem."
— Jaime Gil de Bieda (via llenalena)
(Source: light-essence, via ruby-teenagedoom)
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May 26, 2012
I need feminism because
I shouldn’t have to apologize for asking a man to wear a condom.
May 26, 2012
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ha! not a chance. the writing is bad and some of the stories are a little too autobiographical.
May 26, 2012
so i have this other blog where i write fiction/short stories.
at the moment i’m basically writing fanfic of my own life.
it’s a little weird.
May 26, 2012
May 26, 2012
"The plain fact is that the planet does not need more “successful people”. But it does desperately need more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers and lovers of every kind. it needs people who live well in their places. It needs people of moral courage willing to join the fight to make the world habitable and human, and these qualities have little to do with success as our culture has defined it."
— David Orr (via viktoribleu, free-wilderness) (via onmyowntwohands)
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